Hi there, I am not a gold member at this time and limited in my ability to view profiles and respond to messages. Haven't decided if I'm renewing pay membership. Perhaps I will accrue enough points to buy it lol. Life is crazy busy but I make time when it becomes obvious I should. I am Poly ENM and sub with a fairly closed circle at this point. If you are not over 40 there is zero chance I'm going to play with you. Sorry not a cougar and not into that age gap.

My Ideal Person I am interested in single active people in the age range of 45 to 60 who have their life together, enjoy outdoors and living life to the fullest. If all you have a blank profile or a dick pic and one sentence in your profile I am likely to ignore you I am looking for more substance than that. I like a man who takes care of himself and would rather be outdoors than in bars or clubs. I am drawn to Dominant men who are comfortable with taking the lead but capable of snuggles and aftercare. BDSM experience as a Top/Dom a bonus. If you have a wife or girlfriend and play alone with out their consent I am not interested in play. I am not a booty call nor just looking for random hookups. FWB, naughty friends and perhaps in time more is my interest. I am pretty hard core about my age range. I am not looking for bi or submissive men. A man who kneels for another doesn39t tempt me. Not into 420 but not against it but other drugs a no. I take a bit to trust people please be patient.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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