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platonicwbennies 44 / M
"Well endowed, hyperactive sex-drive...seeking the right fit. If you're done after one...keep looking"
Boston, Massachusetts, United States
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platonicwbennies 44/M
Boston, Massachusetts
Full disclosure: I'm happily married, and am not looking to change that. Yes she knows. If you aren't ok with that, keep looking. Why am I here? Bottom line: my sex drive is just a lot higher than hers; we've found this is a great solution. That doesn't mean that we're not still happily married (and that we'll stay that way); does mean that we need to find someone who he can have a relationship with's 110% respectful, but that's only physical. Not emotional. Could we be friends? Sure! But it will never amount to anything more than that. And discretion is an ABSOLUTE must. If you're compatible, email or chat; if you're not...PLEASE don't contact. NOTE:This information is PRIVATE, and may not be used in any way, shape or form without the express written consent of the poster...which you DO NOT HAVE. My photos may not be shared with anyone, or posted on any site without my express written consent, period. More details: I'm a pleaser. I really get off on having my partner get off. If you're done after one orgasm, we will not be compatible. If you like lengthy sessions, and you can't ever seem to get enough, we'll have a lot of fun. Couples - I am not bi, please do not ask.

My Ideal Person I'm looking for someone (or people in general) who generally agree with the following sentiments:

1.) If there's no chemistry, the sex can't be good, period, stop;

2.) That sexual exploration doesn't need to define your lifestyle;

3.) That Having a membership on this site doesn't mean that you get to disrespect or demean people;

4.) That making misrepresentations about yourself & your body type to people whom you intend to meet is not a good idea. If I can't trust you to be honest about who you are and what you look like...what else can't I trust you with?

  • 44 / male
  • Boston, Massachusetts, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Straight / Prefer not to say
Looking For:  Women or Couples (2 women)
Birthdate: October 21, 1979
Marital Status: Attached
Height: Prefer not to say
Body Type: Athletic
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Race: Caucasian
Male Endowment: Long/Average
Speaks: English