I'm many things to many people but in my soul, I'm dominant. Before I knew anything about bdsm, I knew I liked being in control. So, after several long term relationships in which D/s was well integrated, I know "this" is right for me. Vanilla is fun but I find myself unable to really connect with someone unless we share D/s. I am seriously looking for a submissive sensual partner whom we can share some kinky erotic moment together. I have an endless imagination for many different role plays and fantasies which I'm willing to share with respectful and obedient submissive. Im a confident woman who knows exactly what I want. Most men are dominant. I prefer mine submissive. I am 40yrs old and I am presently attached so I am only interested in a man who understand what discreet relationship means and can protect it.I live in FWD and I am interested in a man whom we can be seeing eachother for sensual session as often as we want. I am a Lady of many passions, whom you may have the privilege to discover IF I allow you to enter My world of kink and adventure.

My Ideal Person I am seeking a boi with an eagerness to learn and a heart for pleasing. He will be trained to serve me. I ask that this boi have an open mind and a desire to be trained.

I am currently searching for someone to be my partner in life both vanilla and Ds. I do have a separate vanilla life and a successful career therefore I offer and demand discretion. I am looking for the rare exceptional specimen. I am highly selective! Tell me why I should select you If you are under 50 or are not local to me, you are probably not a suitable partner. My time is limited and valuable. I am technically still married so privacy and maturity is highly required.

Be between 49-62. I don't believe geography should be a barrier but I am not interested in pursuing anything online/ long distance. That means I do not plan to email endlessly before we meet. Be educated and gainfully employed. Now, more importantly, be submissive. I don't mean "I'm submissive now dominate me by spanking me in my panties". I mean you recognize that you're not fulfilled unless you've pleased me. You derive pleasure from satisfying me.